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The fastest-growing segment of the U.S. population

is people age 60 and older.  Abuse of elderly people

is an important part of the increase in family violence.

Recent statistics show more than 53 reports of elder

abuse are received in Ohio each day.

Like other family violence, elder abuse involves all

backgrounds and cultures.  It happens all over Ohio.

It is rarely confined to a single event.  The average

abused elderly person is:

*75 or older.

*Living with his or her children or relatives.

*In poor physical or mental health.

*Usually female.

We need to recognize and focus on the problem

of elder abuse to solve it.  We need to conduct

more studies and use more resources against it.

We need to provide services to both the abused

and the abuser.

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Who abuses the elderly? Top of page

People often hear about elderly abuse in

institutions, but only a small percent of elderly

live in institutions.

Most elderly persons live independently.

This may be alone, with a spouse, or with

relatives.

Most families don't abandon, abuse, neglect,

or take advantages of their elderly relatives.

But studies do point to the family as the single

greatest source of elder abuse.

Daughters, sons, grandchildren, or other relatives

may be abusers.  Physical abusers are usually male.

Psychological abusers are usually over 50 or older.

These relatives may have been looking forward

to a time of personal freedom.  They instead find

themselves supplying almost constant personal

and medical care to an elderly relative.

In many of families where abuse happens,

conflicts have existed for years.  There may

be a pattern of violence in the family. The

parent may have treated the child badly earlier

in life.  These problems come to a head when

family members more into the same home.

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Why does abuse of the elderly happen? Top of page

Violence in the family has more than one cause.

However, a major cause is being unable to handle stress.

The relative who takes care of an elderly person may

have several sources of stress, such as:

*Financial problems.

*Divorce.

*Unemployment.

*Unhappiness with a job.

*Being forced to give up a job to take care of an elderly.

parent or relative.

*Shouldering the care and costs of an elderly person at

an age when the caretaker needs to plan for his or her

own retirement.

Stress often leads caretakers to misuse alcohol or drugs.

Misuse of alcohol is often a cause of family violence.

Drinking can lower a person's self-control and increase

the chance of aggressive and violent behavior.

Caretakers are often torn between love and hate,

between a sense of duty and a wish to be free from

responsibility.  They may feel guilty for not welcoming

elderly relatives into their homes with open arms.

Old conflicts become worse.  Caretakers may complain

that elderly persons don't:

*respect family needs for privacy.

*Consider family opinions.

*Recognize caretakers as adults.

As elderly persons become more dependent on

caretakers, the chance of abuse increases.  This

abuse may be physical, emotional, or financial.

It can include neglect or exploitation.

Poor health can accompany aging and places

increasing burdens on the family.  Many elderly

can't walk without the aid of another person or

a walker.  Some may need a wheelchair.  Many

need almost constant care and supervision and

can't be left alone.  The family and the caretaker

begin to resent the restrictions placed on its time.

Some age-related diseases, and some medicines,

may change personality.  These changes can make

the elderly person hard to care for.  Some elderly

may:

* Try to control the family and the caretaker.

*Be demanding.

*Cry or scream.

*Withdraw.

*Refuse food.

*Refuse to take medicine.

*Throw objects.

*Hit or slap.

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How are the elderly being abused? Top of page

Much has been written about the abuse of the

elderly by strangers.  However, there is a higher

chance that family members will:

*Give improper or little care to the elderly.

*Neglect them or keep them in isolation.

*Deny proper food or medical care.

*Verbally abuse them.

*Threaten them with nursing home placement.

*Physically restrain them.

*Hit or beat them.

*Misuse their money or property.

*Wish for their death to preserve an inheritance

that will otherwise need to be spent on their care.

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Do the abused elderly tell anyone? Top of page

The abused elderly often are not willing to tell

anyone about their situation.  They may resign

themselves to the abuse due to:

*Embarrassment

*Pride

*Fear

*Love for the abuser.

*A belief that living in an institution is the only

other choice.

At times they do seek help.  They may try to tell

someone, but not be believed.  Or they may suffer

from a medical condition that prevents them from

understanding or clearly explaining what is happening

to them.

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Does anyone else usually know? Top of page

Other relatives, friends, or neighbors may suspect

what is happening.  Some may know what is happening,

but they may be afraid to become involved.  Or they may

not know how to report the problem.

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Do some elderly abuse or neglect themselves? Top of page

Ohio statistics show more than half of all reports of

elder abuse involve elderly who abuse or neglect

themselves.  This often happens among elderly who

live alone.

The elderly person may:

*Live on an improper diet.

*Refuse or be unable to eat.

*Refuse to seek medical care.

*Refuse or be unable to follow the orders of doctors.

*Misuse alcohol or medicines.

*Wish to die, consciously or subconsciously.

Elderly persons may keep living alone though it places

them at risk.  They may refuse or be unable to move to

the home of a child or relative or to a nursing home.

This presents a problem for family and friends.  It is

hard to decide where the rights of the elderly to choose

their own life-styles end and the responsibility of family,

friends, or community begins.  Although adult children

are not currently legally responsible for their parents,

most feel they are morally.

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Who is legally responsible for reporting  Top of page

suspected abuse of the elderly?

Ohio law calls for certain professionals to report

any elder abuse to the county department of job

and family services (CDJFS) immediately.  This

includes suspicion of abuse.  Here is a listing of

these professionals from Ohio Revised Code

(ORC) Section 5101.61.

*Any attorney, physician, osteopath, podiatrist,

chiropractor, dentist or psychologist.

*Any employee of a hospital as defined in ORC

Section 3701.01.

*Any nurse licensed under ORC Chapter 4723.

*Any employee of an ambulatory health facility.

*Any employee of a home health agency.

*Any employee of an adult care facility as

defined in ORC Section 3722.01.

*Any employee of a community alternative

home as defined in ORC Section 3724.01.

*Any employee of a nursing home, rest home,

or home for the aging, as defined in ORC

Section 3721.01.

*Any senior service provider.

*Any peace officer, coroner, clergyman.

*Any employee of a community mental health

facility.

*Any person engaged in social work or counseling.

If any of these professionals have reason to believe

that an adult:

*Is being, abused, neglected, exploited, misused,

taken advantage of, or

is in a condition which is the result of abuse,

neglect, or exploitation, the professional

MUST immediately report such belief to

the CDJFS.

You don't have to be one of these professionals

to report elder abuse.  If you suspect elder abuse,

contact your CDJFS.  Look in the phone book for

"Job and Family Services Department" under

"Government Offices - County."  The CDJFS

investigates all reports, even if you don't give your

name.

You can report elder abuse by phone, in person,

or in writing.  If possible include:

*The name, address, and approximate age of the

elderly person.

*The name and address of anyone responsible for

the elderly person's care.

*The reason you suspect abuse, neglect, or

exploitation.

*The nature and extent of suspected abuse,

neglect or exploitation.

*Any other information known.

If you report elder abuse, you are immune

from civil and criminal liability under Ohio law.

(You are still liable for perjury or acting in bad faith

or with malicious intent.)  An employer can't punish an

employee who files a report in any way.

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What happens after a report is made?  Top of page

In Ohio, each county's department of job and

family services is responsible for receiving and

investigating all reports.  The CDJFS must begin

its investigation:

*Within 24 hours after it gets an emergency report

of abuse.

*Within three working days in other cases.

When it finishes the investigation, the CDJFS use

its findings to decide if the elderly person needs

protective services.

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What are protective services?  Top of page

Persons 60 or older need protective services if they are,

or are suspected to be, suffering from abuse, neglect, or

exploitation.  They must be suffering to an extent that:

*Either their lives are in danger

*or they receive, are likely to receive:

*Physical harm.

*Mental pain.

*Mental illness.

Where money is available, protective services can

include such services are:

*Counseling and casework services.

*Medical care.

*Mental health services.

*Home health care.

*Homemaker services.

*Help with food, clothing, or shelter.

*Money management.

*Housing related services.

*Guardianship services.

*Placement services.

*Legal services.

*Adult day care services.

The problems of the abused elderly can be medical,

social, legal, or a combination of these.  A team

approach is often the best way to solve these problems.

The CDJFS may supply some services.  It may arrange

for community agencies to supply other services.

Protective services works look at each elderly person's

situation to decide what services to choose.  Workers try

to choose services that will improve the situation while

giving the elderly person the most freedom possible.

Putting the elderly person in an institution is usually the

choice of resort.

Professionals and concerned citizens need to work

together to protect elderly at risk and help them and

their families.